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love as a feeling, love as a decision/choice, and love as an action.
The confusion of these three kinds of love is the cause of much needless pain and suffering.
In an attempt to clear up this confusion, let’s take a closer look at each of these three kinds of love.
Love as a feeling.
Oh, what a feeling. Let’s face it, falling in love feels great. So does being in love. Throughout the centuries, poets, writers and singers have all extolled the glories of being in love.
Only problem is that it doesn’t last.
Sorry to bring you back to Earth with such a jolt, but let’s be honest. The emotional high that we feel just doesn’t last on a day-to-day basis.
Remember the phrase “and they lived happily ever after”? Even though this phrase can be found at the end of most fairy tales, our culture seems to have accepted it as fact.
“Well,” you might be saying at this point, “aren’t we sounding cynical today.” Maybe so, but if you’ll hang in there with me, reader, it’s going to get better really quick.
It’s natural and normal for the feeling of love to ebb and flow in a relationship. That’s why it’s so important to understand that in addition to love as a feeling there are two other kinds of love.
Love as a decision/choice
Love is also a decision and a choice. There are times when we do not feel like loving in any way. In relationships, however, we are called to love even when we don’t feel like it (sometimes especially when we don’t feel like it).
Authors Gary Smalley and John Trent said:
“Every enduring marriage involves a commitment to an imperfect person.”
What this means on a day-to-day basis is this: We may sometimes say to ourselves when thinking about our partner,
“You know, I really don’t like you very much today.”
Then this needs to be followed by, “and I’m going to love you anyway.”
The choice and decision to love, even when we don’t feel like it provides the sense of security necessary in a relationship to make it through the inevitable rough waters.
Love as an action
In addition to being a feeling and a choice, love is also a verb.
We can have the feeling of love, we can decide to love, we can understand all that there is to understand about our relationship, but we won’t get very far until we take action.
Some couples I have worked with are very good at describing what is wrong with the relationship and/or the other person. It reminds me of what actor and comedian Lily Tomlin once said:
“I personally believe we developed language because of our deep need to complain.”
One of the biggest myths about marriage goes something like this:
“If you really loved me, then you would (know what to do, know what to say, know what I like, etc.).”
Nothing could be further from the truth.
Instead of complaining about our partner’s behavior, we can simply ask for (request) what we would like. Sometimes that will be a request to do something. Other times it may be a request not to do something.
It goes something like this:
“I would like you to (fill in the blank).”
Then your partner gets to say either “Yes, I can do that” or “No, I won’t do that, because (fill in the blank). What else could I do that would meet that need?”
In this way, we can put hands and feet onto the feeling of love. The really curious thing is that when we decide to love and take action in this way, it can lead us back to that feeling of love.
Jeff Herring is a Relationship Coach, Speaker, and Syndicated Relationship Columnist. Visit SecretsofGreatRelationships.com for more relationship tips and tools, a free internet newsletter and free e-programs to enrich your relationship
love as a feeling, love as a decision/choice, and love as an action.
The confusion of these three kinds of love is the cause of much needless pain and suffering.
In an attempt to clear up this confusion, let’s take a closer look at each of these three kinds of love.
Love as a feeling.
Oh, what a feeling. Let’s face it, falling in love feels great. So does being in love. Throughout the centuries, poets, writers and singers have all extolled the glories of being in love.
Only problem is that it doesn’t last.
Sorry to bring you back to Earth with such a jolt, but let’s be honest. The emotional high that we feel just doesn’t last on a day-to-day basis.
Remember the phrase “and they lived happily ever after”? Even though this phrase can be found at the end of most fairy tales, our culture seems to have accepted it as fact.
“Well,” you might be saying at this point, “aren’t we sounding cynical today.” Maybe so, but if you’ll hang in there with me, reader, it’s going to get better really quick.
It’s natural and normal for the feeling of love to ebb and flow in a relationship. That’s why it’s so important to understand that in addition to love as a feeling there are two other kinds of love.
Love as a decision/choice
Love is also a decision and a choice. There are times when we do not feel like loving in any way. In relationships, however, we are called to love even when we don’t feel like it (sometimes especially when we don’t feel like it).
Authors Gary Smalley and John Trent said:
“Every enduring marriage involves a commitment to an imperfect person.”
What this means on a day-to-day basis is this: We may sometimes say to ourselves when thinking about our partner,
“You know, I really don’t like you very much today.”
Then this needs to be followed by, “and I’m going to love you anyway.”
The choice and decision to love, even when we don’t feel like it provides the sense of security necessary in a relationship to make it through the inevitable rough waters.
Love as an action
In addition to being a feeling and a choice, love is also a verb.
We can have the feeling of love, we can decide to love, we can understand all that there is to understand about our relationship, but we won’t get very far until we take action.
Some couples I have worked with are very good at describing what is wrong with the relationship and/or the other person. It reminds me of what actor and comedian Lily Tomlin once said:
“I personally believe we developed language because of our deep need to complain.”
One of the biggest myths about marriage goes something like this:
“If you really loved me, then you would (know what to do, know what to say, know what I like, etc.).”
Nothing could be further from the truth.
Instead of complaining about our partner’s behavior, we can simply ask for (request) what we would like. Sometimes that will be a request to do something. Other times it may be a request not to do something.
It goes something like this:
“I would like you to (fill in the blank).”
Then your partner gets to say either “Yes, I can do that” or “No, I won’t do that, because (fill in the blank). What else could I do that would meet that need?”
In this way, we can put hands and feet onto the feeling of love. The really curious thing is that when we decide to love and take action in this way, it can lead us back to that feeling of love.
Jeff Herring is a Relationship Coach, Speaker, and Syndicated Relationship Columnist. Visit SecretsofGreatRelationships.com for more relationship tips and tools, a free internet newsletter and free e-programs to enrich your relationship
Are you hungry for that lovin’ feeling? But why is true love so elusive? Why does it so often lead to heartbreak? Check out these heartbreak clues and see if any of these offer clues. Read on to see how to get better results in love.
Heartbreak clues:
1. You are miserable being single.
Wanting love is very different than being desperate for love. Are you loveable, that is, can someone else love you when you don’t even like yourself? If you are looking for someone to rescue you from yourself, you will need to become your own hero first.Loving and respecting yourself are very attractive features, and will attract a self-respecting partner. The converse is also, unfortunately, true.
2. No boundaries.
You have few, if any boundaries for your own or your partner’s behavior or status. Are you too accepting of bad or disrespectful treatment for fear he or she won’t want to bother with you any longer? Are you or is this partner not really available to commit to this relationship? Do you say yes when you wish you could say no?
If the person you are involved with is still married, or not fully divorced and healed, he or she is not really available to you. Open your eyes. If you don’t want to waste a lot of your life in a relationship that is really going nowhere healthy, set a boundary that you will not get involved with someone unless he or she is fully available, right now, and treats you respectfully, consistently over time. Ditto for you.
3. Lack direction.
You don’t know who you are or what is important to you or where your life is headed. What are your values? What values do you want to share with your life partner? What do you need to do, be and/or have in your future to be happy and satisfied? What impact do you want to have in the world or in someone’s life? What emotional, physical and perhaps spiritual qualities and circumstances are of utmost importance to you in a love relationship? Socrates said it best, “Know thyself”. You are uniquely you; Shine the light of self-knowledge on your requirements, needs, and wants, your life vision, dreams and goals. You want a partner who will support and help fulfill these for you.
4. Trust and commitment are missing in action.
Attraction is the first ten features you care about in a partner. Attraction and chemistry are important ingredients in a love relationship. But over time, they are likely to fade. The intensity of attraction and chemistry are boosted by the hormone, dopamine, which, like adrenaline, energizes and makes a new relationship feel exciting.
Over time, that is 2 months to 2 years, the effect of this dopamine will dissipate, and a feeling of “ho-hum” will set in, unless new ingredients, like trust and commitment, which are highly bonding dynamics, grow.
Like salt and pepper, trust and commitment and other bonding dynamics will enhance the flavor of the attraction between you. Otherwise, your relationship will begin to feel bland, or downright distasteful.
5. Sabotaged by the past.
You are still hurt from past relationships. The hurt you carry around from the past will taint, sabotage or damage other relationships, unless you are able to: 1) learn from and heal the hurts from the past, (there ARE processes to heal the heart) and 2) distinguish the past from the present. If you believe that the past will repeat itself, for example, with infidelity, (though of course, you hope it won’t) you might, unconsciously, set up the conditions so it will happen again. Remember that this partner is not the previous partner or other person in your life who hurt you before. Don’t blend your past and present experiences, like a ball of mixed up playdoh colors, into one mishmash of hurt.
6. Emotions run the show.
You have few useful relationship or communication skills. When you are angry, upset or hurt, you blow up, blame, threaten and/or take no responsibility for your part in the problem. If every upset or argument that you are involved in has the same pattern and upsetting outcome, in this and in previous/other relationships, notice who is the common factor here.
It may feel like it’s all the other person’s fault, all the time. You may even be sure it’s the other person’s fault, but take the hint and work with a relationship coach to learn how to resolve upsets so you both feel heard, validated and respected. Don’t keep doing the same thing and expect a different result!
Destination: Lasting Love: Get started on the path.
Wanting a loving, secure relationship does not mean you are actually ready for one. To be truly ready and available for a lasting, healthy relationships hre are some essential ingredients:
Feeling good about your yourself and your life
Knowing who you are and what is important to you in a relationship,
Having boundaries that, like mosquito repellant, repels unhealthy behaviors,
Learning relationship skills that help rather than hurt, will transform heartbreak into happiness. Working with a life and love coach to step into the life you want. May you have much happiness in love!
We all have psychic abilities. For many people this ability is dormant or asleep. It’s a bit like the person who sits at a piano for the first time and discovers that they have a natural talent for music. The ability was always present it just takes the right circumstances for the talent to become apparent.
Most of us have times in our lives when we notice something at work that can be considered psychic. Usually this psychic ability is in the form of intuition, hunches or gut responses that seem to defy reason or logic. These uncanny hunches and sudden insights can sometimes leave us feeling bewildered, but the truth is that they are a perfectly natural ability. And like any other talent, psychic abilities can be trained and perfected.
There are any number of tools and methods available to the psychic any or all of which may help to increase or focus intuitive skills. Most psychics use some form of meditation to enter a frame of mind that heightens intuitive awareness. Some read palms or tea leaves, tarot cards or rune stones or use a crystal ball; some may involve intricate rituals. Regardless of the tools used to assist a psychic reading they each serve to aid the psychic in entering a form of focused meditation which greatly enhances the natural intuitive sense.
Focused meditation provides the frame of mind that is most receptive to intuitive information. Meditation quiets the mind, filters out the noise and chatter of the conscious. This filtering of conscious noise allows the sub-conscious mind to voice its thoughts, as well as enable the mind to tune in to the environment. Some have called this a heightened state of awareness or altered consciousness. The attention is drawn inward with a kind of detached awareness. Developing your ability to enter into this heightened state of mind plays the important role in increasing your intuitive senses.
If you’re unfamiliar with the practice of meditation then the following exercise should help to gain a better understanding of the methods used. This exercise focuses on breathing and visualization. Controlled breathing provides an area of immediate connection with the mind and body and also increases the supply of oxygen to the brain.
Begin by finding a comfortable place to perform your meditation. This can be any place of your choosing, provided that you find it comfortable and relaxing. It is not required for you to sit, though you may, if you choose. Many people find it difficult to sit still for any length of time. Standing or even walking slowly is perfectly acceptable for the sake of this exercise.
Focus your attention on your breathing. Notice the air as it enters your body. Try to breathe in through your nose and exhale through your mouth. Take slow, deep breaths.
Inhale slowly through your nose and hold the breath in for nine seconds, then exhale slowly for another nine seconds, count out the seconds steadily, not rushed and not sluggish, try to find a pace that feels comfortable, just remember to relax your breathing.
Inhale for nine seconds, exhale for nine seconds, and repeat this process nine times. With every breath, imagine that you are inhaling precious life giving air and exhaling any unwanted energies. After you have repeated this cycle nine times you can begin your visualization. Try to maintain the rhythm of your breathing without counting it out in your head.
At this point you may notice random thoughts popping into your head, simply dismiss them as they enter your mind, let them slip away easily.
Imagine that you are walking across a dry and sandy landscape. The temperature is comfortable, the air is easy to breath and you feel at ease.
As you walk along you notice a shape on the horizon. As you near the shape you see that it is a stone building, a round, stone building with a single door. You are facing the door and now you see that this door is slightly open and a light is coming from inside.
Now, you are standing at the door and decide to push the door open. You open the door and enter the stone building.
Inside you see a round room with a table in the centre. The room is well lit, warm and comfortable. You approach the table and notice a small wooden box, paper and a pen.
You form a question in your mind that you would like answered, an issue that you would like resolved, it does not take you any time to form this question. You write this question on the paper before you and place the paper in the box. You see the box has a lid and you close it.
After a moment you open the box, you see that the question is no longer written there, instead an answer has appeared. You take the answer with you as you leave the building and return to your present space.
You may see immediate results with this exercise or it may take several attempts before the answers found within the box make any sense to you.
Over time this visualization becomes much easier to enter into and you may be tempted to treat this exercise as some sort of oracle. This is not the true intention. Instead what we are trying to accomplish is entering into the receptive mode of meditation that was spoken of earlier. The easier it is to enter into this state the more likely it is that you will become tuned into receiving intuitive information.
Jeffry R. Palmer is the well known author of several books dealing with the subjects of metaphysics, paranormal phenomena and psychic development. His articles and columns have been featured in several popular international magazines. His accurate and detailed psychic predictions, including Hurricane Katrina and the Indonesian tsunami have captured the attention of an international audience.
Personal psychic readings by Mr. Palmer are available through the http://the-psychic-detective.com web site. These psychic readings are kept in strict confidence, cover all aspects of life, are extremely accurate and detailed and are very simple to purchase. Mr. Palmer even offers a 100% money back guarantee to clients if they aren’t completely satisfied with their readings.
